Love Numerology: what the numbers reveal about relationships

Numerology is a tool that has the power to unveil the hidden secrets of numbers and reveal the different facets of our being, profoundly bringing self-awareness and awakening consciousness.

Likewise, it can provide a greater understanding of human interactions, helping us understand our relationships through number combinations.

Love life is one of the areas with the greatest influence on how we interact in the world. Each relationship provides learning and awakens in us a part that is often hidden.

And paraphrasing Pythagoras, "The Universe is a harmony of opposites," so relating is a law of life, starting with our birth with our parents, then with the social environment, and then lovingly with someone who "completes" us.

The truth is that we are all whole, and seeking the other half, or that soul mate, can be a way to avoid our responsibility in the relationship, after all, there is no perfect couple, what exists is a couple willing to make it work.

And numerology can help with this quest to make our love life easier and smoother, unraveling the lessons we have with our partner, identifying our behavior patterns, and bringing understanding of the interactions that manifest in this relationship.

Through the Love Numerology Synastry (combination of the couple's numerological charts), it is possible to reveal what motivates the relationship. We learn what are the key points that need to be worked on, what each one comes to learn from the other on this journey, and how to balance personality tendencies so that the relationship is healthy.

And now, let learn how to calculate and interpret the "Couple's Destiny."

Learn to calculate your Relationship's Destiny Number:

To make these calculations, we need the couple's birthdates. First, it is necessary to calculate the individual Destiny Numbers and then make the combinations.

Avoid adding all the numbers at once, try to make the calculations exactly as exemplified below, as in cases of master vibrations, errors may occur if not done in this way.

For a better understanding, I have provided an example below:

Let's call this couple Love One and Love Two.

Love One - Date of Birth: 10/15/1900

Love Two - Date of Birth: 03/12/1913

To calculate the Individual Destiny Number, we consider the Date of Birth and perform the theosophical reduction from 1 to 9, except for 11, which is not reduced.

In Destiny Number calculations, it is necessary to reduce the "Year of Birth" first, only once, then add to the day and month without reducing, exactly as shown below.

Love One:

Year of Birth (1+9+0+0) = 10

Month + Day + Year (above)

10 + 15 + 10 = 35 = 3 + 5 = 8

Love One: Destiny 8

Love Two:

Year of Birth (1+9+1+3) = 14

Month + Day + Year (above)

03 + 12 + 14 = 29 = 2 + 9 = 11

Love Two: Destiny 11

To calculate the Couple's Destiny, we consider the Individual Destiny Number of each and add them together, then perform the theosophical reduction from 1 to 9, except for 11, which is not reduced.

To combine the numbers, you need to take the individual number before reduction, add them up, and then apply the theosophical reduction. Exactly as in the Example, this avoids calculation errors with Master Numbers.

Love One (destiny before reduction): 35
Love Two (destiny before reduction): 29

Combination of Destinies:

Destiny Love One + Destiny Love Two

35 + 29 = 64 = 6 + 4 = 10 = 1 + 0 = 1

Couple's Destiny 1

See below the meaning of each Couple's Destiny Numbers:

Couple's Destiny 1

This destiny number in a relationship brings the desire to innovate, create and dare. They will handle adversities creatively and there will be no routine. This vibration is an invitation for them to learn to respect individuality, while joining forces to pursue grand dreams, as well as to develop understanding and dialogue. When united, they are capable of creating a harmonious relationship with great achievements; together they will seek to explore the world.

Couple's Destiny 2

This destiny number in a relationship brings the desire to work as a team, as 2 invites flexibility and patience. If they can balance their individualistic tendencies, they can build an empire together, as their creativity, leadership, and empowerment combined bring an extra spice to this relationship. Respecting each other's individuality and learning to separate business from personal life can contribute to the balance of this couple. Cultivating dialogue, humility, and sharing vulnerabilities can bring them closer together. It is necessary to observe the tendency to hold grudges and power games, seeking a more harmonious and understanding path is the best way.

Couple's Destiny 3

This destiny number in a relationship brings the desire to spread joy, develop a social life, live different experiences and break the routine out. They will be encouraged to develop vivacity, a tidy and beautiful home, and enjoy moments of pleasure together. Programs involving music, theater, cinema, dance, arts, can be a stimulus for them to learn to develop communication and self-expression. Dialogue is key for this relationship to be balanced, as the energy of 3 instigates this energy. The energy of 3 may instigate the need for a more relaxed and less monotonous life, creativity is needed to keep this romance alive. When balanced, this relationship can be an example of a healthy relationship for others.

Couple's Destiny 4

This destiny number in a relationship brings the need to create lasting bonds and build a family. There is a need to learn to organize themselves to develop stability and security. The foundation of this relationship should be trust. Together, they can cherish the cultivation of family traditions and establish a daily routine. It is necessary to observe a tendency towards rigidity and excess rules, which overload the couple; a dose of lightness will help maintain balance. When they "work as a team," they can build great empires together, one brick at a time, with planning and determination. All they require is to share their feelings amicably and make their home a safe haven for both. Loyalty is the main value to be developed here, so there is no room for secrets, things need to be transparent and true.

Couple's Destiny 5

This destiny number in a relationship brings the need to learn the value of freedom and trust, as well as a more flexible and adventurous life. The different experiences that arise are opportunities for them to learn to deal with life's changes and impermanence. Each has much to teach the other; together they can develop growth in all areas of life. It is an intriguing mix of emotions that can provoke very intense and pleasurable moments; there is a lot of chemistry in this relationship, so honesty about what each seeks in this relationship is the key to its health. Observing the tendency towards impulsiveness and bringing lightness can simplify things, as everything here happens on the surface. It is necessary to seek understanding and respect the differences, then everything will happen in perfect harmony.

Couple's Destiny 6

This destiny number in a relationship brings the need to harmonize and reconcile the most diverse environments, as if they were united to bring unity wherever they go. Therefore, they may often find themselves in situations where they need to mediate conflicts, provide emotional support; together they are the foundation of the family and if in balance, can be an example of a relationship for people who know them. The point of attention here is precisely the relationship because both tend to be very involved in external situations and forget about their life as a couple. They dream of building a large family, a beautiful and cozy home to welcome friends, they are great hosts. Love, respect, and understanding are the cornerstones of this relationship. Together, they can build complicity and a true union, but it is important to remember that this relationship needs an extra spice too so that it does not fall into routine and in the end discover that they are more friends than a couple.

Couple's Destiny 7

This destiny number in a relationship brings the need to develop intuition, inner wisdom, and deep complicity. There is a tendency to be together to heal their internal vulnerabilities; it is as if one mirrors what the other needs to heal, so seeking self-knowledge is a way to understand their weaknesses and together transcend the challenges that arise. There is a rational energy in this relationship that instigates a philosophical and even spiritual quest; together they can engage in great intellectual dialogues, where they can learn a lot from each other, but only if they are willing to balance differences of opinion. Excessive criticism and judgment can weaken this relationship, so seeking balance and open dialogue, respecting differences, will make them an inspiring couple.

Couple's Destiny 8

This destiny number in a relationship brings the need to find balance between material and spiritual life. This couple tends to be a remarkable pair of entrepreneurs; when together, they can achieve great things. Among the lessons of this relationship is the need to transcend selfish feelings, resentments, and grievances, not to mention the tendency to turn the relationship into a "business." The keyword is balance; the number 8 already denotes cosmic balance and this relationship needs to weigh all situations fairly, so as not to get lost between giving and receiving. Financial life, possessions, and professional success may be the most discussed topics, so developing a routine of activities together can spice up the relationship and bring them closer together. When there is space and respect for each other's vulnerabilities, things flow. True love overcomes everything, as long as there is a mutual effort to make it work.

Couple's Destiny 9

This destiny number in a relationship brings the need to develop humanitarian sense and contemplation of life. There is a tendency for one to want to save the other; the lack of balance between giving and receiving is a point of attention, as well as the need to live life for others and forget about the relationship. Together, they can be encouraged to develop social projects, contributing selflessly to building a more balanced society. The energy of 9 brings the need for self-knowledge; one can learn from the other, but both need to grow together; otherwise the relationship may suffer. People come to this couple precisely to urge them to move out of stagnation. Taking care to avoid accumulating feelings and grievances is a way to prevent the relationship from falling into oblivion; the way out is open dialogue, as well as respect for differences.

Couple's Destiny 11

This destiny number in a relationship brings the need to inspire people through their leadership. They may enjoy mystical, spiritual, and occult subjects. There is a tendency to search for "Truth," awakening consciousness, expanding philosophical and spiritual horizons. Together, they can elevate each other's vibration, contributing to individual and collective growth. There is also the possibility that they can explore horizons, spreading knowledge wherever they go, beyond national borders. Developing a more humanitarian and idealistic attitude is one of the needs of this vibration. It is necessary to observe the tendency towards "ego battles"; unity, patience, and cooperation are what make this relationship lighter. Leadership must be mutual; both need to learn to yield and recognize each other's potential in the relationship.

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